Jewish Household Blessings: Welcoming Shabbat at the Family Table, Affixing the Mezuzah for Chanukat HaBayit and Yahrzeit Memorial Prayers
Lighting the Shabbat Candles (Hadlakat Nerot, performed 18 minutes before sunset on Friday evening): The mother or woman of the household lights at least two white Shabbat candles, gently waves her hands three times over the flames to draw the sacred light inward, covers her eyes with both hands, and recites the blessing:
Hebrew Transliteration: Barukh Atah Adonai, Eloheinu Melekh ha-olam, asher kid'shanu b'mitzvotav v'tzivanu l'hadlik ner shel Shabbat. English Meaning: Blessed are You, O Lord our God, King of the Universe, Who has sanctified us with His commandments and commanded us to kindle the light of Shabbat! Amen.
Today is ……………………, in the ………… Year. Gathered around the Shabbat table at our residence at …………, our household comprising ………………………………, of the ………… family, welcomes the holy day of rest and peace (Shabbat Shalom!).
Parental Blessing of the Children (Birkat HaBanim, Parents place both hands upon the head of each child): For a son, recite: Yesimkha Elohim k'Ephraim v'khi-Menasheh (May God make you like Ephraim and Manasseh, Genesis 48:20). For a daughter, recite: Yesimekh Elohim k'Sarah, Rivkah, Rachel v'Leah (May God make you like the matriarchs Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel and Leah). Then recite the Priestly Blessing (Birkat Kohanim, Numbers 6:24-26): Y'varekhekha Adonai v'yishmerekha; Ya'er Adonai panav eilekha v'yichuneka; Yisa Adonai panav eilekha v'yasem l'kha shalom! (May the Lord bless you and guard you; may the Lord make His countenance shine upon you and be gracious to you; may the Lord turn His countenance toward you and grant you peace!).
Sanctification Over the Cup of Wine (Kiddush, The head of the household raises a brimming silver cup of kosher wine or grape juice): And there was evening and there was morning, the sixth day. The heavens and the earth and all their hosts were completed... Barukh Atah Adonai, Eloheinu Melekh ha-olam, borei p'ri ha-gafen! (Blessed are You, O Lord our God, King of the Universe, Who creates the fruit of the vine!). Blessed are You, O Lord, Who sanctifies the Shabbat! Amen. (The officiant drinks from the cup and shares wine with all at the table).
Ritual Washing of the Hands (Netilat Yadayim): Family members pour clean water from a two-handled cup over each hand and recite: Barukh Atah Adonai, Eloheinu Melekh ha-olam, asher kid'shanu b'mitzvotav v'tzivanu al netilat yadayim (Blessed are You, O Lord our God, King of the Universe, Who has sanctified us with His commandments and commanded us concerning the washing of the hands).
Blessing Over Two Braided Challah Loaves (HaMotzi, Uncovering the two whole loaves recalling the double portion of Manna in the wilderness): Barukh Atah Adonai, Eloheinu Melekh ha-olam, ha-motzi lechem min ha-aretz! (Blessed are You, O Lord our God, King of the Universe, Who brings forth bread from the earth!). Amen. (Dip pieces of Challah bread into kosher salt symbolizing the eternal covenant, and distribute to each member of the household).

